Why We ARGUE!
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I made an earlier post about how itβs important to distinguish in an argument where each side is coming from. Many arguments come from the simple miscommunication of reasoning: one side primarily using Logical Reasoning and the other primarily using Emotional Reasoning.
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- When a person explains logically why the other person is feeling the way they do, thatβs not what the other side wants. The other side wants the person to enter their Emotional Home, to feel that theyβre feeling. Empathy. β€οΈ
- When a person explains emotionally why the other person doesnβt understand them, thatβs not what the other side wants. The other side wants the person to enter their Intellectual Home, to use reason in the situation. Rationality. π§
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- Itβs important for your Intellectual self to know thereβs a difference between Intelligence and Wisdom. One can know intellectually how someone is feeling. But to be up close and personal with it themselves, to emotionally experience the same emotions another person is feeling, is an additional form of understanding. π
- Itβs important for your Emotional self to know thereβs a difference between Emotions and Emotional Intelligence. One can feel emotionally that something is wrong in a situation. But itβs another to be aware how our emotions can distort our thinking and impede on understanding another personβs point of view. π
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These are of course big generalizations Iβm listing, and they should not be taken as black-and-white as I do with them here. They mix and overlap. But I regardless find it important to start somewhere in understanding the different types of communication.
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