Why Youโ€™re NOT Your Labels!

Don's Golden Nuggets
2 min readDec 18, 2021

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๐ŸŒŸ ๐˜๐Ž๐”โ€™๐‘๐„ ๐€๐ โ€œ๐ˆ๐๐“๐‘๐Ž๐•๐„๐‘๐“โ€ ๐€๐’ ๐Œ๐”๐‚๐‡ ๐€๐’ ๐˜๐Ž๐” ๐’๐€๐˜ ๐˜๐Ž๐” ๐€๐‘๐„!๐ŸŒŸ

โ€œ๐˜›๐˜๐˜ˆ๐˜›โ€™๐˜š ๐˜‰๐˜š, ๐˜‹๐˜–๐˜•๐˜ˆ๐˜“๐˜‹! ๐˜ ๐˜ˆ๐˜” ๐˜ž๐˜๐˜– ๐˜ ๐˜ˆ๐˜”, ๐˜ˆ๐˜•๐˜‹ ๐˜›๐˜๐˜ˆ๐˜›โ€™๐˜š ๐˜›๐˜๐˜ˆ๐˜›!โ€ ๐Ÿคฌ

I know this will be hard for some people to hear. โค๏ธ

Throughout my life I used to tell myself who I believed I was. And in turn it dictated all the actions I would take. Itโ€™s all I ever thought I was, so why try anything different? ๐Ÿ‘

One of those labels included: โ€œIntrovertโ€. ๐Ÿ˜Š

But eventually I realized what others told me about who I was was in fact limiting me. Not just that, I realized what I was also telling myself about who I was also limiting me! It went both ways! ๐Ÿ˜…

Why? I was using the labels I embraced as part of myself AS AN EXCUSE, RATHER THAN AN EXPLANATION, to not step outside my comfort zones. ๐Ÿ˜ฑ

๐Ÿ“Œ โ€œIโ€™m an Introvertโ€ฆ(an excuse for why I wonโ€™t speak on a stage).โ€

๐Ÿ“Œ โ€œIโ€™m an Empathโ€ฆ(an excuse for why I wonโ€™t be open to hearing constructive criticism).โ€

๐Ÿ“Œ โ€œIโ€™m a Capricornโ€ฆ(an excuse for why I wonโ€™t commit to a relationship).โ€

And Iโ€™ll add as a Capricorn, I consider introversion and empathy parts of my own character traits as well! ๐Ÿ˜ฒ

Do we each have individual tendencies that come more naturally to us? 100%, Iโ€™m not denying that! ๐Ÿ’ฏ

But what Iโ€™m saying is that regardless of your natural tendencies you donโ€™t have to let these parts always be running the show. You donโ€™t have to let your self-identified labels stop you from trying new things and seeing what other parts of your personality has yet to be developed! ๐Ÿ˜ƒ

Who knows? You might discover a new part of yourself! โค๏ธ

Maybe you have an inner Extravert thatโ€™s just waiting to be awakened! ๐Ÿ™Œ

โ€œ๐˜Œ๐˜ˆ๐˜š๐˜  ๐˜๐˜–๐˜™ ๐˜ ๐˜–๐˜œ, ๐˜‹๐˜–๐˜•๐˜ˆ๐˜“๐˜‹! ๐˜ ๐˜–๐˜œโ€™๐˜™๐˜Œ ๐˜š๐˜œ๐˜Š๐˜ ๐˜ˆ ๐˜•๐˜ˆ๐˜›๐˜œ๐˜™๐˜ˆ๐˜“ ๐˜–๐˜• ๐˜Š๐˜ˆ๐˜”๐˜Œ๐˜™๐˜ˆ!โ€ ๐Ÿ’ฌ

Not at all! Far from it! ๐Ÿ˜…

Filming this video back in 2018 was extremely out of my comfort zone. You wouldnโ€™t know it from watching, but it really was! ๐Ÿ‘

My heart was pounding. I hesitated before I was about to film. My mind started to think about how I should film it. I debated on the โ€œperfectโ€ angle and the โ€œrightโ€ time. ๐Ÿ˜จ

But once I stopped overthinking and just hit the Record button this was the end result! ๐Ÿ™Œ

๐˜๐จ๐ฎโ€™๐ซ๐ž ๐ฆ๐จ๐ซ๐ž ๐ญ๐ก๐š๐ง ๐ฒ๐จ๐ฎ๐ซ ๐ฅ๐š๐›๐ž๐ฅ๐ฌ. ๐†๐ข๐ฏ๐ž ๐ข๐ญ ๐š ๐ฌ๐ก๐จ๐ญ! โค๏ธ

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